Your Secret Story

Do you have a secret story?

A secret story is a story you tell about yourself, as you’re going through your daily life. We probably all had secret stories when we were children. I know I did. I was in disguise as an ordinary student, but I had actually come from fairyland, or the future, or somewhere else, and I was just observing the people around me. I would eventually have to report back to my superiors, or turn all the people I had been observing into the animals they most resembled, or I would simply go back to where I came from — which was of course much more magical than where I was. Having a secret story made life more interesting.

I know, I know, you’re thinking of Walter Mitty. I hated that story. If he was able to tell secret stories about himself, couldn’t they have been interesting? Why did they have to be as horribly clichéd as his actual life? For me, the lesson of “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty” was that if you have a lame imagination, your life is going to be lame as well. But then, for me, James Thurber is particularly of his time. I’ve found him amusing, but not very satisfying.

A secret story should be yours alone: about who you are, who you want to be. Who you believe yourself to be, under all the social conventions and expectations. Are you secretly a sorceress? A priestess? A charmer of animals or teller of fortunes? Are the trees your friends? There is something wonderful about having a secret identity, something that no one knows about you. (When I was a child, I had a secret name. No, I won’t tell you what it is.)

Sometimes, if you’re lucky, your secret story can come true, in certain ways. You can become the person you wanted to be, have the life you wanted. It took me a while to realize that being a writer was like being a sorceress — that writing was a type of spell, an enchantment, and that I was learning to cast it. So I get to be a sorceress of sorts in my daily life. We’ll see if the other parts of my secret story come true. (I’ve met the fairy queen. I’ve made friends with trees.  I’m still looking for Avalon.)

What is your secret story? I bet you have one. You don’t have to tell me; you just have to tell yourself.

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7 Responses to Your Secret Story

  1. Evelyn says:

    In answer to the leading question:

    Yes. (When I was in elementary school, my secret identity was a dragon.) If I didn’t make up stories during the regular school day, I’d probably resort to extreme measures to alleviate the boredom. Sometimes the secret identities I make up even spin off into viable story ideas.

    The picture at the bottom fascinates me. I keep scrolling back up to look at it. Is the artist Waterhouse?

  2. Dan Keohane says:

    Wow. Cool post….. yes. 🙂

  3. My secret story was that I was a bold adventurer and not the painfully shy rotund child that everyone assumed I was. The Bold Adventurer persona is one I have cultivated and pursued and it is how I try to present myself in social situations (and social media). Now my secret story is the shy fat kid that I still sometimes feel like inside.

    And now the secret’s out.

  4. More and more my secret story is a glimpse into a past life, the more evolved we become the better we can deal with the scary stuff. Being on the Seventh Path of Ceremonial Magic in all my lifetimes, there’s been plenty of scary. But it all seems to be coming together in this life.

  5. I was a brave princess, who used her wits to either tame or elude robbers and ogres, and I had a good sense of style, favoring ball gowns. Except for the ball gowns (I
    do collect costumes, though) I still get in and out of danger in more subtle ways. I
    still obey all the rules of kindness to the unimportant looking because I know they
    may be princes and princesses in disguise.

  6. Diatryma says:

    I didn’t have one. My stories were constant and always about other people. There were me-figures in there, disguised various ways, but they weren’t me. It’s only recently that my walking stories have been about anything in my life, and I miss having the fiction.

  7. Damaline McPhail Bryant says:

    Wow. This is such a wonderful post. I love your thoughts on this. I, too, had a very secret life as a child, and it helped save me in some very difficult circumstances.

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